"Ah, I think what you're talking about probably is a lot more common in a normal sized population than what we've got represented in our little community here," Dionysus says, thoughtfully. "It sounds like you're describing what a lot of people in the time Apollo and I are from call demisexuality. You're not going to see someone and immediately find them attractive, but if you've got a strong enough bond with 'em that might change. Right?"

Look just because it's very wildly different from how Dionysus himself is doesn't mean he is unaware of it as a concept.